This applies to the context of choosing people (or jobs).
Rather than trying to change someone so that they fit your values, we should choose from a lot of options available.
E.g.
You want your friend to start reading books. Even if you have persuasion skills of excellent caliber, the chances of your success are very slim.
But if you go out and try to find people who already read books, that will be a more worthwhile experience to pursue. The Internet offers you options to join different groups, or try dating sites.
The underlying idea is that we can not change people[ especially for people aged above 20].
I hypothesize that the above idea can be applied to following areas also:
1. Jobs
2. Finding a House
3. Choosing a life partner or spouse.
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