Sunday, 2 May 2021

NNSI –Not Nice but Sincere and Intelligent

We often talk to people because they are nice, kindhearted, funny, or neighbors. I don’t follow this reasoning. My hypothesis is that most humans are nice and irrational. I only talk to people who are either sincere or intelligent. I think the most impact our friends have on us is on our thinking. Most of the material needs we have can be solved by corporations and governments. You can get credit from a bank, rely on indeed to find a job, order from restaurants, call 911, use dating apps or stay in AIRBNB. We relied on people in previous centuries. Thinking should be the most important value between us.


We are told that we should have friends who can tell us the truth on our face but what is the guarantee they know the truth? Your friends may have the right intentions but are they right? I think it’s possible to find people who also have nice intentions, but they are intelligent as well.


I think sincerity can not be faked. If someone is sincere, it means that you will not have to waste time on small problems. I think that Sincere people are also more likely to be curious and good learners.


This might seem a radical approach but I think we need one in a world of options and choices. 

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