10 questions to ask on first date

10 questions to ask a girl on first date 

1. What are your 3 favourite movies ?
2. What is one thing you like about your friend ?
3. What is one thing for which you can spend any amount of money ?
4. Subway or Dominos ?
5. Quora or Medium ?
6. What’s is your favourite car ?
7. Yoga or Gym 
8. Beer or Whiskey ?
9. Android or IOS ?
10. Facebook or Twitter ?

10 egoistic things we do :

10 egoistic things we do every day 

1. When we judge someone on the basis of their face. 
2. When we judge failed people. 
3. When we judge someone on the basis of the car they drive 
4. Liking someone because of their work or family not because of the work they do 
5. Focusing on superficial things of people than on internal character 
6. Labeling people as Hindu or Muslim than being a human 
7. Eating out at western food chains just because we think it’s cool
8. Spending lavishly at weddings just because we want people to remember the occasion
9. Going to the gym to develop a body to impress girls than being healthy 
10. Parents telling about the academic achievements of their children 

10 examples where actions are similar but intentions are different:

1. A doctor and a murderer use sharp instruments on another person. One uses to save a life while other uses to get a life.
2. Poor people use food to survive while the rich throw food parties to boost their ego.
3. AC makes human life comfortable but it makes difficult for birds to survive.
4. Sex lets the human species survive but becomes violence when people don't like it.
5. Religion unites people but also divides people.
6. Water gives life but also takes life. Excess water causes flood but lack of it causes deaths.
7. The Internet makes information accessible but takes out our ability to think.
8. Airplanes take you to the destination faster but also reduce the time span of earth.
9. Plastics increase your convenience but destroy the planet.
10. Information is free but it gives additional stress.

10 after effects of meditation

1. You can’t see violence in any form whether its porn or any verbal fight.
2. You gain a lot of willpower to say ’No’ to a lot of things.
3. The sleep gets better and your posture also improves over time.
4. When you are talking with someone, you are only talking to them. You don't get distracted.
5. Your happiness does not depend on material objects ( like food, clothes, songs, etc)
6. You maintain a constant speed on your bike/car rather than going up and down.
7. You feel every bit of food going through your body.
8. You don't feel to escape any situation, rather you feel confident to face it.
9. You think you are going to curse someone but when the moment comes, your anger melts away easily.
10. You do everything with love. It becomes difficult for you to do things without love (even sex)

10 questions i can ask Sadhguru

1. There is fiction all around. How one finds truth in this chaos of life?
2. If every human job which depends on memory is automated, what will humans do?
3. How would the world have panned out if there had been no religion?
4. All religions of the world have some foundational values in the start but with the passage of time, the people of that religion get away from those values. Why does it happen?
5. What is talent? Does God really give some special power to some people on this planet?
6. At what age we should expose children to social media/the internet?
7. What is entertainment? Is it someone's responsibility to make me laugh?
8. Should humans have sex only for reproduction?
9. You are very skeptic about the use of natural resources by humans but positive about the use of technology by humans?
10. Can a human live life by speaking truth only?

10 things in life for which only we only are responsible.

1. Health
2. Choosing friends
3. Finding a partner
4. Using Brain/ Intellectual power
5. Misery / Failures
6. The upbringing of our kids.
7. Financial Position
8. Foundational Values
9. The exposure on social media.
10. Our academic success.

10 questions about your childhood

1. Do you remember the first time you lied?
2. At what age you had your first crush?
3. Who was your favorite superhero?
4. Do you remember the first movie you watched in the theatre?
5. The age at which relinquished the pleasure?
6. Your ranking in class at age 10?
7. The first song on which you danced on stage?
8. Who was your first teacher crush?
9. Anyone lame occasion where you cried?
10. Do you remember your birthday celebration?

10 ways to propose a girl

1. For a girl who is a writer, writing an article for her in a newspaper.
2. For a girl who is a coder, making a library for her.
3. For a girl who is HR, making a document of policies and then lie.
4. For a girl who loves music, writing a song for her.
5. Making a comic strip about their love story.
6. By making a website and flashing the message on the screen.
7. By playing a video game with her in which a boy proposes to the girl.
8. Making a video with the help of her family and friends.
9. By giving up your bad habit and then proposing.
10. By gifting her a photo album and making a story in the photos.

10 questions to ask any college/university head:

1. Do you find dealing with professors more difficult or with students?
2. Competition is a negative emotion that can easily crop up among students. How will counter this feeling in your child?
3. Suppose a student commits suicide, what are the steps you are going to take to prevent this?
4. What is one activity that you will like to incorporate in your professional schedule?
5. Should we also honor people who publish more research papers at convocation?
6. What is the biggest ethical dilemma you faced?
7. Becoming a college head ranks where on your achievement list?
8. Do you miss teaching children?
9. Should not the best teachers of the college be freed from administrative duties?
10. What do you when you are overloaded with information and unable to make a decision?

10 topics for this blog

1. 10 best things about Christmas.
2. 10 questions to ask an astrologist.
3. 10 questions to ask a  cleaner.
4. 10 ways to propose a girl.
5. 10 questions to ask a girl on the first date.
6. 10 common observations about a sports fan.
7. 10 ways an online MOOC can advertise.
8. 10 areas OYO can enter now.
9. 10 ways Flipkart can outsell Amazon.
10. 10 things to take care while going on a solo trip.

10 topics for this blog

1. 10 names for my podcast.
2. 10 things that vegetable vendors should change.
3. 10 accessories to Kindle.
4. 10 jokes on rituals of religion.
5. 10 jokes on stereotypes of Punjabis.
6. 10 things to keep in mind while designing my blog.
7. 10 questions to the admission committee of any university.
8. 10 areas of life where we multitask.
9. 10 questions to the astrophysicist.
10. 10 changes in Punjabi weddings that should happen immediately.

10 things I learnt from Reading Hooked book

1. This book actually keeps you hooked from start till the end by using all the relevant examples.
2. B= MAT. For any behavior to occur, you should have the motivation, ability, and trigger. ( BJ Fogg Model)
3. The Manipulation Matrix
4. The hook Model
5. Six elements of Simplicity-- What things we can make simple so that users use the product.
6. " Only 1 left in stock" is often a hook used by companies to make you believe that the product is scarce and you should buy it immediately.
7. “Every behavior is driven by one of three Core Motivators: seeking pleasure or avoiding pain, seeking hope and avoiding fear, seeking social acceptance while avoiding social rejection”
8. " The more effort - either physical or mental required to perform the desired action, the less likely to occur."
9. Variable rewards keep the users hooked. If the newsfeed in your facebook is repetitive, you won't use the product again. Our brain likes uncertainty in terms of content.
10. "But you are free to give anything" is the request that can work wonders.

10 good things about running

1. Running is a form of meditation.
2. Run-on the road less traveled.
3. You only need shoes and a flat track to run. 
4. When you run, you are not competing with anyone.
5. Running marathons in this highly stimulated world is equivalent to spending hours in solitude.
6. Marathons bear a great resemblance to life. You have to be a constant runner and maintain the same energy throughout.
7. It's easy to take cold baths after a long run.
8. Some of the great scientists of the world preferred long runs to clear their minds. ( Alan Turing, Terrace Sejnowski, etc.)
9. Running builds physical stamina which can help in playing other sports.
10. Running in nature helps the respiratory system a lot .

10 things we dont appreciate in our life

1. How our parents have raised us successfully.
2. How we don't die because of the mistakes of others. (Earlier people died from war, famine, and plague)
3. How our brain is working fine ( There are millions of things that can go wrong in your brain.)
4. Freedom to choose what you eat.
5. Ability to communicate in a universal language ( English)
6. Ability to access information for free.
7. Free Society
8. Ability to choose life partners.
9. Immortality rate reducing year by year.
10. We can communicate with anyone across the planet for free.

10 things i learnt from Feynman:

The lessons I learned by reading his book "What do you care what people think'

1. He didn't like fiction at all. he always wanted to stick to reality.
2. Once in Japan, he preferred staying in a family inn than a big hotel.
3. When his first love, Arlene was sick, he read the medical books to find the root cause.
4. Feynman didn't believe in luck at all.
5. Feynman even slept in garbage dumps when he used to go to meet his first love in hospital.
6. Although his primary interest was physics, he never shied away from reading biology.
7. Feynman could read books while talking.
8. He was bad at remembering names.
9. When he went to Trinidad Tobago, he wanted to see how poor people of that country live not the museums or famous places.
10. He considered the focus on English literature in academics to be overrated.

10 rules to have a minimalist desktop:

1. Have an expiry period for the tabs on the browser. You must close you all tabs after 3 days so that you don't have any attention residue left. Often when you log in and see the old tabs, it triggers a chain of thoughts that make you believe that some work is pending. 
2. It helps to work in full-screen mode.
3. Use the color coding in Mac properly. ( Like Red for important files, Yellow for books that can you read in future, blue for technical papers )
4. You can also use folders for bookmarks.
5. The dock should only have those files which you use frequently. ( No need to have contacts, maps)
6. Use content blockers/ad blockers always when working on deep tasks.
7. Have nature images as wallpapers.
8. Use the screen time trackers.
9. Excel is also a good tracking tool.  No need to download specific apps for that.
10. Always define the relationship between your device and you. If it is a work computer, don't use it for entertainment.

10 things/ posters I can have in my room

1. Poster displaying my top values.
2. Poster of a Brain
3. A frame of photos doing my favorite tasks like running, reading, yoga, etc.
4. A photo with my mentors/teachers/parents.
5. A daily journal/ calender on the shelf.
6. A checklist poster/board.
7. A green plant.
8. A poster of nature ( or of something of fruits/vegetables/trees)/
9. A display board with random entries from my journal diary.
10. A small musical instrument like a flute.

Review: The Checklist Manifesto: How to Get Things Right

The Checklist Manifesto: How to Get Things Right by Atul Gawande
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

There are some books that revolve around one idea and it gets irritating to complete the book. The idea that we need checklists in complex tasks to survive is great. There were repeating examples of using a checklist in hospitals.

I think you can just read the 3rd, 7th and 8th chapter of this book ( 8th chapter being the most important one). This is a one time read book. (Not a reread one)

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10 question to any surgeon:

1. How do you handle the fear of your patients.?
2. What do you hate about being a surgeon?
3. How much do you read in a day?
4. Do you use checklists in your personal life?
5. When you make mistakes in your job, how do you deal with them>
6. How do you know if a patient is lying?
7. If you are operated upon, do you interfere with the practice of another surgeon?
8. How your efficiency varies with time of the day?
9. What one thing people should know about surgeons?
10. Automation is changing the fields where we need a lot of experience? How do you see your field being affected?

10 topics for this blog

1. 10 ways pollution can be curbed.
2. 10 kinds of posters I can have in my room.
3. 10 rules to have a minimalist laptop.
4. 10 names of my autobiographical documentary.
5. 10 industries where checklists help a lot.
6. 10 ways public buses should be changed.
7. 10 changes in railway stations.
8. 10 chapter names of my autobiography,
9. 10 names of new Punjabi dishes.
10. 10 actions that are done against nature. ( like building a dam for stopping the flow)

10 interruptions which the disturb the flow of our activities

1. Skype/ Email in the workplace.
2. Open Workspaces: Every time someone makes a little noise, our mind gets distracted.
3. Mobile Phones.
4. Notifications while doing some important work on mobile phones.
5. Ads while watching a cricket match/ reading a blog.
6. Horns while driving
7. Item Songs while watching a Bollywood movie.
8. Air Hostess while sleeping on a plane.
9. Body pain while doing any focused activity.
10. Speaking while eating.

10 fields where narrow knowledge (chunking) helps:

Narrow Knowledge areas are those areas where we rely on experience to determine future action. You rely on repetitive patterns and there is no innovation involved. e.g. Chess,

1. Firefighters: They rely on their experience 
2. All Sports
3. Service jobs like cleaning, cooking, electrician, etc.
4. Driving
5. BPO jobs
6. Administrative jobs
7. Security jobs
8. Farming
9. Pilots
10. Technicians

10 names for this blog:

1. Insightsabouteverything.com
2. RandomInsights.com
3. ColorfulIdeas.com
4. ThinkandCreate.com
5. UnionofIdeas.com
6. SilenceIsPowerful.com
7. RationalThinking.com
8. ReflectioninLife.com
9. LoveEverywhere.com
10. EnvironmentofIdeas.com